Day 28

Pride destroys relationships. It shows up in a lot of different forms like ego, criticism, competition, stubbornness, jealousy etc..
The problem with pride is that it’s self-deceiving. When you have too much pride, you don’t see it in your life—but everyone else does!..
First pride, then the crash—the bigger the ego, the harder the fall.. (Proverbs 16:18)
While pride destroys relationships, humility serves as its antidote (remedy), building relationships instead..
Philippians 2:3 tells you how to combat (attack) pride by choosing humility: “Be humble and give more honor to others than to yourselves”..
1 Peter 3:8 gives more insight: “Everyone must live in harmony, be sympathetic, love each other, have compassion, and be humble”..
How do you grow in humility?..
You let Jesus Christ begin to control your thoughts, heart, attitude, and responses. Ephesians 4:23-24 says, “Let the Spirit change your way of thinking and make you into a new person”..
The basic law of relationships is this: You tend to become like the people you spend time with. If you spend time with grumpy people, you get grumpier. If you spend time with happy people, you get happier..
If you want to become a new, humbler person, you need to spend time with Jesus Christ, because He is humble..
By building a relationship with Him through prayer and studying His Word, you’ll get to know Him and become more like Him..
You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. Though He was God, He did not think of equality with God as something to cling to.. (Philippians 2:5-6)
Jesus is the ultimate example of humility. He came from heaven to Earth to become a man, live for you, give His life for you, and be resurrected for you. When you spend time with Him, it makes you humble. That humility, in turn, builds your relationships..
“Be humble and give more honor to others than to yourselves…….” (Philippians 2:3)